You’ve been forced to adapt over the last 7 to 8 weeks, depending on where you live in the world.
Let me ask you a question. How have you been adapting to the change?
If you would rate yourself in being agile in this event and I would ask you to rate it from one to ten, what would it be?
One being miserable, defeated, uttermost unhappy or lost and ten being still an event that even you didn’t choose, but you’ve succeeded in making a change for the better and turning this whole situation into your advantage.
What is it for you? One, five, eight, ten?
It is given that change is always going to come without your permission.
Last week, I wrote about how you should not be afraid. Fear is a liar, I wrote. And it’s true because when you are afraid you have very bad judgment and therefore make bad mistakes.
If you make bad mistakes, the outcome of your decisions will probably be just that… bad.
If you gave yourself a number below seven, you probably dealt with more moments of fear than you would think in the first place.
We talk a lot about being a better entrepreneur, and in fact, a better leader overall. A better mom or dad, who also are leaders.
If you have children of your own, you are a leader to them, and they are looking at you right now and learn from you and how you deal with change.
Look, we are all human and we all lose it sometimes. There are moments we just don’t see it, we fall, and we get back up. That is perfectly fine and even good.
But you have to get back up on your feet and tell your kids that mommy was afraid, but now she fought back and she’s alright now.
There is a beautiful word for getting to a state of being unafraid, steady, and ready for any storm that comes. The word is Unfuckwithable.
Here’s a definition, but please make your own: Unfuckwithable; (adj.) when you’re truly at peace and in touch with yourself, and nothing anyone says or does bother you, and no negativity, events or drama can touch you.
That we should all strive for being unfuckwithable is obvious, it will bring you peace of mind, better decisions, more balanced kids, more prosperity, and more happiness.
That being unfuckwithable the past few weeks and months in our companies brought us the best month we’ve ever had (we literally doubled an average month), is a nice byproduct.
But what really matters is the state of mind it brings to you.
You could become unfuckwithable as well. It’s all part of the Gemini Lifestyle we study, implement, and bring out to people.
Embrace change, become the steady lighthouse where people can navigate upon. The one you were meant to become.